FOCUS ON YOURSELF!...

We always expect others should think good of us. We want everyone should appreciate us and we want them to feel that we are very nice. But, the expectation is impossible.

                       Let me tell you a story of Lord shiv and parvathi. One fine day shiv told parvathi that we can go to the streets of village and will have a look of people. Parvathi told shiv as per your wish maharaj. They took Nandi with them to the streets of village. Shiv told parvathi but we should take some other form of avatar so that people cannot recognise us. Parvathi accepted with shiv. They went to the streets of village along Nandi (Bull) there were a group of people they started passing comment's that these people are half mad they are having a bull with them why can't they use it. Shiv told parvathi do you hear what they said and  parvathi told yes my dear lord i heard the conversation. Shiv told parvathi let us sit on the bull. They both decided to sit on the bull. After passing a few distance and again a group of people started making a comment that how cruel these human beings are, they don't have a soft heart towards animals. Again shiv asked parvathi do you hear that and parvathi said yes my lord. shiv decided to make parvathi to walk and shiv sat on the bull and they started to pass on the village further. This time also Lord shiv and Parvathi came across a group of people and they started to discuss that oh my god this man is full of arrogance he has made his wife to walk and he is sitting so cosy on the bull. Shiv asked parvathi did you listen to them and parvathi said yes my dear lord. You were sitting in the kailash so you don't know about these people nowadays they are giving first preference to women. After listening to parvathi, shiv decided to get down from the bull and made parvathi to sit on the bull alone. Shiv walked into the village and parvathi was riding the bull. They both again crossed a group of people they started discussing that what kind of kaliyug this is and she is not respecting her husband. Shiv once again asked my beloved parvathi did you hear those conversations. Parvathi politely answered yes my dear lord. Shiv told parvathi we have only one option to deal with this. Let us tie the bull with the thirusul and we will lift the bull. Parvathi said as per your wish lord so they decided to hung the bull to the thirusul and they were lifting him and walking. Finally they came across the village panchayat. The panchayat stated that these people are not half mad they are full mad.

                     Shiv told parvathi this is why I brought you here to experience that no matter what you do there is always a group of people who always find fault on you. 

         It is always better to mind your own business and focus on yourself.